By Jordan Gray | Jordan Gray Consulting
Are you currently experiencing extreme burnout? Have you been googling things like “adrenal fatigue”, “how to rest”, and “extreme tiredness”?
Whether you’re experiencing burnout from a place of workaholism-induced fatigue, situational depression, or a chronic (i.e. multi-year) lack of rest, this article will go into the twelve things that you can do to recover from your burnout faster than you thought possible.
My Extreme Burnout Experience
For the first three years of starting up my business, I barely took a day off. And I really mean barely. Even saying barely feels generous.
My best guess is that within my first three years of writing online, I may have had a total of ten days where I actually did zero work.
And while I feel so grateful to have the kind of job where I wouldn’t want to take many days off from work, and a job where the time flexibility is so great that I am able to chip away at it on a daily basis, ultimately I am not a robot. Eventually, my plans of constant productivity came crashing down around me.
Throughout the majority of my third year in business, I had a sense of feeling tired but also wired. It felt like my body wanted to take a ten-hour sleep but I couldn’t because I had just consumed six cups of coffee. Which was strange because I don’t drink tea, coffee, or caffeine in any form. Nevertheless, this underlying message from my cells screaming out for rest went unheeded.
Then, one day, my body demanded that I pay attention…
It was a Wednesday morning that I woke up from an unusually long sleep (a full eight hours – gasp!) still feeling exhausted.
My body felt heavy… so heavy that I felt like I had woken up three times heavier than I had been when I went to sleep.
My brain felt foggy and exhausted. Stringing a complete sentence together was challenging.
The idea of getting out of bed to make myself breakfast felt impossible.
I felt so lifeless that I thought about calling an ambulance. I didn’t know what was wrong with me. I felt emergency-room tired.
I called up one of my closest friends who I knew had experienced multiple forms of extreme burnout and fatigue over the previous years and asked her opinion of what was happening to me.
Her advice was a blur… but I remember her saying things like “adrenal fatigue”, “burnout”, and “you’re probably going to have to become your own doctor over the next few months.”
She was right. Regardless of what you label this burnout phase as (adrenal fatigue, burnout, exhaustion, etc.), I became my own doctor for the following couple of months and earned my way back to health.
Over the following two weeks, I subjected myself to a battery of tests from doctors, naturopaths, and other healers… and nothing showed up. My blood work was pristine. I didn’t have mono. I wasn’t depressed. I was just… exhausted.
The best advice that I got from my doctor was to take some time off for a while. And while rest and relaxation is a sound solution for most ailments, I knew that I wanted to do more to be proactive in my recovery.
Through my rounds of experimentation, I tried supplements, lifestyle changes, and a bunch of fringe hippy stuff. Throughout it all, I noticed what moved the needle for me and what didn’t.
Without further ado, here are the twelve highest leverage things that I did to recover from my bout of extreme burnout.
12 Steps To Fully Recover From Extreme Burnout Or Fatigue
I saw two naturopaths and one doctor that told me that it would likely take me anywhere from 6-12 months to fully recover from my state of fatigue. By adhering to the following protocol, I noticed a significant uptick in my energy levels within 2-3 weeks and felt almost 100% in under two months.
1. Decide to make your health your number one priority
I believe that illnesses are what happens to our bodies when we’ve been ignoring their messages for too long.
When you reach a point of extreme burnout, you’re there because you’ve been overriding your body’s message to slow down and rest for too long. It seems no other way than to stop you dead in your tracks and make you listen.
It is imperative that you make the conscious decision that you are going to listen to your body and make your health your number one priority from now on. Not just until you feel a bit better so that you can get back to your ‘normal’ life… but literally from now on.
This is a wake-up call. It’s time for you to create some fundamental shifts in your life that will see you honoring your health more on a daily basis. No more taking your health for granted… it’s time for a real change.
2. Take an actual break to reset your nervous system
There are likely a handful of things in your life that you’ve been engaging in that have been draining your metaphorical batteries for a while now. In order to earn your way back to a clean bill of health, you must begin by taking a proper break from the things that have been exhausting you.
Take a two-week break from work. Start saying no to social events that drain you. Pass off your least favorite responsibilities to someone else for a while.
Yes, people will be disappointed with you. But your health comes first. Full stop.
3. Reach out for help
If you’ve reached a place of full-on burnout, it’s highly likely that you’ve been shouldering too much for a long time.
Do you find it difficult to ask for help? Do you feel like no one has your back? Do you live by the moniker ‘If you want something done right, do it yourself’?
Stop trying to do life on your own.
Ask your friends for support. Tell your family members or close confidants that you’re struggling.
Let people in. There is probably a flood of people who would want to help you with your situation if they only knew how much you needed their help.
We are a social species. We need each other to thrive. You are no exception.
Reach out to a handful of people and ask for their help. Start now.
4. Build a team of healers to help you on your journey
It took more than one factor to get you to this place of burnout, and it’s likely going to take more than one form of treatment to help you get better.
On my personal journey, I visited a medical doctor, two naturopaths, a registered massage therapist, an acupuncturist, an energy healer, and a therapist. I made healing my full-time job… and I knew that having a dedicated team of healers around me would expedite my process.
While I’m not guaranteeing you’ll need more than a simple visit to your doctor to get the clarity that you’re looking for, it never hurts to get multiple opinions and tests done, just to rule out various health factors.
Healing your physical body from extreme burnout is a war of attrition, not a war of annihilation. Put in another way, lots of little things are going to add up to helping you to heal, more likely than it is that you’ll find one magic bullet to heal you right away (as nice as that would be).
So enlist help. Yes, friends and family… but also enlist the aid of people who help others heal professionally.
5. Regularly engage in slow, gentle forms of exercise
The health benefits of exercise are innumerable… but when you’re in a phase of extreme burnout it can be challenging to get out of bed, let alone get yourself to the gym to have a personal trainer kick your butt around the room for a full hour.
When it comes to getting your blood flowing during your burnout recovery, ease is the name of the game.
Engage in exercise for short periods of time, without pushing yourself too hard.
Go for slow walks away from traffic noise. Stretch for a few minutes on the ground in your living room. Go for a walk in the forest with a friend. Practice yoga from home. Dance around your home to a song that you like. Try one of these three lazy workouts.
If you find yourself even more tired the day after your workout, you may have been pushing a bit too hard. Whatever form of exercise you engage in, make sure you aren’t over exerting yourself.
6. Make room for play and laughter in your life
Laughter is like an instant vacation.
If you’re chronically waking up and barely able to function, life can seem pretty unmanageable and certainly not very funny.
But it’s important to do whatever you can to prioritize laughter and play in your life.
Watch stand up comedy (live, or online). Invite your most hilarious friends over for breakfast. Go see professional improvisational comics do their thing.
Whatever it is that tends to tickle your funny bone, put it on your calendar and make it happen.
7. Question and re-prioritize your values
Whatever millions of little decisions that led you to your particular form of burnout, the root cause of you have gotten there is most likely, at least in part, screwy values.
As an example, if you value financial gain over your health, sooner or later it’s going to bite you on the ass.
Take a moment to sit with the question “What have I been valuing that has led me to this place of extreme burnout?”
If you want to read more on the topic of prioritizing healthy values for your life, I strongly recommend reading The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck by Mark Manson. The title makes it sound like a cutesy pop-psychology book, but really it’s just an epic primer on discovering and prioritizing durable, healthy core values.
8. Eat small meals frequently to avoid sugar spikes
During your burnout recovery, you want to ensure that you’re being as gentle with your blood sugar levels as possible.
The worst thing you could do is consume two or three massive, overly processed meals per day. The best thing you can do is eat four to six small, nutrient-dense meals per day. More on this in the next two points.
9. Eat these five foods more often
On top of a generally healthy, nutrient-dense palate of foods, throughout my research, I found a handful of foods that contributed to burnout recovery the best.
– Pasteur raised egg yolks
– Organic, grass-fed bone broth
– Avocado / organic avocado oil
Buy organic whenever possible (for the above five foods, and what you eat in general).
And for an example of what an overall healthy meal plan looks like, check out my article The Better Sex Diet: Exactly What I Eat Every Day.
10. Avoid processed sugar, caffeine, and any other stimulants or drugs
Again, in line with taking it easy on your blood sugar levels, you want to ensure that you’re avoiding all refined sugar, caffeine, and any other stimulants or drugs. No alcohol, smoking, or junk food.
This might sound challenging to you, but it’s necessary. In terms of your burnout recovery, there’s more flexibility with sugar than there is with drugs, alcohol, and caffeine… but truly do your best to avoid all of the above, especially during the first 2-4 weeks of your recovery.
If you find yourself having a craving for junk food, just drink a liter of lemon water, eat some coconut oil and/or cashew butter, and take a nap. Believe me, your body will be much happier with you.
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